Not all cheaters are good liars.

1. They touch their nose often. Research suggests that internal nose tissues swell with blood when one lies. If your spouse touches their nose a lot when you are communicating, then there is likely a problem.

2. They avoid looking directly at you. Lying takes concentration and makes one suddenly divert their line of sight.

3. They stare at you too much. They do this to make sure you believe them, but think about it. Do you look at someone constantly if you are telling the truth?

4. They lean forward and get close. Closeness is usually a sign of trust. But sometimes it can be a sign of deceit. They try to exaggerate how close you are by leaning forward when they lie.

5. They pull their earlobe. Some police forces are trained to watch for this very mistake when interrogating criminals.

6. They give you too much information. Their stories are too complex, structured, polished or complete.

7. They tend to give you multiple 'reasons'. If they were honest, they would have the confidence to give just one reason.

8. They stumble in their speech. They make mistakes in the story and try to cover it and it causes them to stumble in their speech.

9. They use 'um' and 'uh' more than normal. This especially holds true in a situation where they have to think of lies quickly.

10. They are hesitant at the start of a sentence. This is typical in the same situation as #9. They have to come up with lies fast and they hesitate.

Early warning signs you should be aware of.

1. Your spouse seems bored.

2. Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.

3. There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship.

4. Your sex life is practically non-existent.

5. Your spouse has a low self-esteem.

6. You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.

7. You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.

8. You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.

9. Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.

10. Spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.

11. Mate is working longer hours at work.

12. Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.

13. You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.

14. Your spouse is indifferent to family and holidays.

15. You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.

16. Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.

17. They don't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.

18. You can't even get your mate to fight with you.

19. You feel as if you are being avoided.

20. Your partner abandons religious faith.

21. Your spouse seems more secretive.

Sometimes they simply want to get caught. Below are some mistakes that many cheaters make.

1. They forget about a “love note” left their pocket.

2. They come home smelling of their lovers perfume or cologne.

3. They are too protective of their purse or wallet.

4. They come home wearing different clothes than when they left.

5. They choose too many different excuses too often.

6. They forget about detailed cell-phone bills.

7. They spend too much money on their affair, less on bills.

8. They come home smelling of smoke, but they don’t smoke.

9. They use a friend as an excuse but don’t tell the friend.

10. They forget about the caller ID and redial button.

Now here are some things you can do to detect these mistakes.

1. Check ALL of their pockets daily when they aren’t around.

2. Make sure you take a good whiff of them each day.

3. Check their purse or wallet daily, looking for anything “hidden”.

4. Notice what they are wearing when they leave, then compare later.

5. Investigate all excuses and make sure they check out.

6. Check every call line-by-line of their cell phone bill for unusual calls.

7. Keep track of how much money they have and what they’ve spent.

8. Ask them if they have been smoking. Watch their reaction.

9. When they give a friend as an excuse, call the friend and ask.

10. Check your caller ID and utilize redial after suspicious calls.

Learn the excuses and cover-ups they create. Things they say to explain where they were:

1. They have to work late.

2. They have to go out of town for a business trip.

3. They have a friend who needs their help.

4. They are going out with their friends.

5. They are going to play sports.

6. They are going to a family member’s house.

Things they do to try and cover things up:

1. They hide things such as notes or gifts.

2. They change their clothes to cover up scents.

3. They lie about where they were.

4. They are more attentive to you.

5. They have sex with you out of guilt.

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